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Expert insights from The Reinvention Mentor® for your next chapter.

YOUR JOURNEY STARTS HERE

The Reinvention Mentor® Blog

Become a New Paradigm Woman® and discover
how to purposefully reinvent all aspects of your life.
Expert insights from The Reinvention Mentor® for your next chapter.

Elegant mature woman looking at the blueprint of a house, symbolizing Lifestyle Architecture

Lifestyle Architecture: Reinvention Seen Through the Lens of Architecture

November 17, 20256 min read

You've built an impressive life. Career success. Financial stability. A reputation that commands respect.

So why does it feel so... small?

I'm often asked what a lifestyle architect is, especially compared to a lifestyle designer. To explain this, I use a metaphor that always resonates deeply with the women I work with.

THE HOUSE YOU INHERITED

Imagine you've inherited your parents' house. As a child growing up there, you loved it. The place made you feel safe, happy, alive. Everything about it was perfect: the surroundings, the feeling, the memories.

Then life happens, as it does. Years pass. Many years. You moved out, built your own life, created your own path. And one day, you inherit the property of your parents.

But there's one condition attached to this inheritance: you cannot tear down the house. You must work with what's there.

Why? Because your history, your wisdom, your experiences are not liabilities. They're the foundation we're building on.

The Decision

But the house has become so small. Constraining, even.

You stand there, looking at this house that once felt so expansive, and you realize: something needs to change.

That's when you call me in. You ask me to help you make something beautiful out of this place.

THE CRITICAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DESIGNER AND ARCHITECT

A designer focuses on what's visible: the decoration, the aesthetics, the surface. Think of it like the tip of an iceberg.

An architect looks at structure. Not just decoration, but foundation. An architect examines the two-thirds of the iceberg that sits beneath the water.

CLARIFY: ASSESSING THE FOUNDATION

Audit

In Architecture

We start by conducting a thorough audit of the house. We walk through every room, assess every space. What's working? What isn't working? What's missing?

The Parallel to Your Life

You're feeling constrained in your current life. It feels too small. You know something needs to shift, but you're not sure what or how.

As your lifestyle architect, I help you take stock:

  • What's working in your life?

  • What isn't working?

  • What's missing?

Identity

In Architecture

Are the foundations strong enough to support what you want to build? What is at the core of this structure?

The Parallel to Your Life

We check your foundations: your values, your why, your core beliefs. Who are you now, beyond the roles you've played? What matters most to you at this stage of your life?

Vision

In Architecture

We explore your vision for this house: what you want to create, what you want to experience within these walls. We design the blueprint together.

The Parallel to Your Life

We clarify your vision for the next season of your life. What does your ideal life look like? How do you want to feel? What legacy do you want to create? We design the blueprint for what comes next.

CLEAR: THE PREPARATION PHASE

Mindset: Preparing the Environment

In Architecture

Before we can build, we need to prepare the environment for construction. We assess what needs to happen before the first brick is laid.

The Parallel to Your Life

We prepare your mindset for transformation. What mental shifts need to happen? What new ways of thinking will support your vision?

Beliefs: Clearing the Rubble

In Architecture

We clear the rubble: debris, broken structures, anything that's in the way of the new construction.

The Parallel to Your Life

We clear old beliefs that no longer serve you. What stories have you been telling yourself that need to be released? What limiting beliefs are holding you back?

Money & Success: Emptying the Rooms

In Architecture

We empty rooms of what no longer belongs: outdated furniture, old belongings that don't fit the new vision.

The Parallel to Your Life

We examine your relationship with money and success. What outdated definitions are you carrying? What money stories keep you small? What expectations aren't even yours?

This is the essential work that makes transformation possible.

CREATE: THE CONSTRUCTION PHASE

Life & Business: Active Construction

In Architecture

The active construction begins. We follow the blueprint, but as with any building project, we fine-tune and adapt as we go. The wall comes down. The extension takes shape. We redistribute the floor plan according to the design.

The Parallel to Your Life

We create the beautiful space you want to live in: not just decorating the surface, but transforming the structure itself.

You start building your new life and business according to your blueprint. As you build, we fine-tune and adapt, making adjustments that honor both your vision and what emerges in the process.

Physical Environment: Building the Extension

In Architecture

We build the extension and decorate it. The new spaces come to life, reflecting the vision we designed together.

The Parallel to Your Life

We look at your physical environment. Where do you want to live? How do you want your space to feel? What surroundings will support your new vision? You create the environment that reflects who you're becoming.

People & Relationships: The Garden & Invitations

In Architecture

We landscape the garden, create the surroundings. Now it's time to invite people into this beautiful new space.

The Parallel to Your Life

We examine your relationships. Who energizes you? Who drains you? Who do you want to invite into this new chapter you're creating?

We address what's been holding you back at the deepest level, so the life you build is truly yours.

CONSOLIDATE: LIVING & MAINTENANCE

Health & Wellbeing: Living in the House

In Architecture

Once the construction is complete, you move into the house. How do you want to live in this space? How do you care for yourself here?

The Parallel to Your Life

You move into this beautiful life you've created. How will you care for yourself in this new chapter? What does wellbeing look like for you now? What daily routines and rituals will support your health and vitality?

Time Management: Making the Best of Your Time

In Architecture

How do you spend your time in this house? Which rooms do you use most? What gets your attention and energy?

The Parallel to Your Life

How can you make the best of your time? What are your true priorities? What boundaries do you need to set to protect your time and energy?

Systems & Tools: Maintaining It All

In Architecture

How do you maintain everything in good condition? What systems do you need to keep the house running smoothly?

The Parallel to Your Life

We put systems and tools in place that allow you to automate and delegate. What gets your focus, and what needs to be delegated and eliminated so that you can focus on what truly matters to you.

This is how we make sure everything is solid, perennial, built to last.

BEYOND THE RULES

This is how I help you create a next chapter that goes far beyond the conditioned rules of what success "should" look like.

This is how we challenge societal expectations of what life for a woman 50+ "should" be.

Because you didn't inherit this house just to leave it exactly as it was.

You inherited it to transform it, extend it, and make it truly yours.


Ready to reimagine the house you've inherited (aka your life) and transform it into something extraordinary?

Book your complimentary Chemistry Call - this is a 30-minute conversation where we'll explore your reinvention vision and determine if we're the right fit to work together. This call is for women who are serious about transformation and want to understand how my approach aligns with their goals.Because at 50+, you're not decorating. You're rebuilding for your most powerful chapter yet.

AnYes van Rhijn (with a capital Y, because she says YES to life!), a.k.a. The Reinvention Mentor®, believes in a New Paradigm Woman® - a vibrant woman 50+ who refuses to be defined by patriarchal limitations and knows she's destined for more. As someone who has boldly reinvented herself multiple times since her mid-forties, AnYes embodies the truth that your next chapter can be your most extraordinary yet. Now living her own reinvented life in Croatia, she empowers heart-centered professional women globally to create next chapters that overflow with purpose, freedom, and meaningful impact.

AnYes van Rhijn

AnYes van Rhijn (with a capital Y, because she says YES to life!), a.k.a. The Reinvention Mentor®, believes in a New Paradigm Woman® - a vibrant woman 50+ who refuses to be defined by patriarchal limitations and knows she's destined for more. As someone who has boldly reinvented herself multiple times since her mid-forties, AnYes embodies the truth that your next chapter can be your most extraordinary yet. Now living her own reinvented life in Croatia, she empowers heart-centered professional women globally to create next chapters that overflow with purpose, freedom, and meaningful impact.

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Elegant mature woman looking at the blueprint of a house, symbolizing Lifestyle Architecture

Lifestyle Architecture: Reinvention Seen Through the Lens of Architecture

November 17, 20256 min read

You've built an impressive life. Career success. Financial stability. A reputation that commands respect.

So why does it feel so... small?

I'm often asked what a lifestyle architect is, especially compared to a lifestyle designer. To explain this, I use a metaphor that always resonates deeply with the women I work with.

THE HOUSE YOU INHERITED

Imagine you've inherited your parents' house. As a child growing up there, you loved it. The place made you feel safe, happy, alive. Everything about it was perfect: the surroundings, the feeling, the memories.

Then life happens, as it does. Years pass. Many years. You moved out, built your own life, created your own path. And one day, you inherit the property of your parents.

But there's one condition attached to this inheritance: you cannot tear down the house. You must work with what's there.

Why? Because your history, your wisdom, your experiences are not liabilities. They're the foundation we're building on.

The Decision

But the house has become so small. Constraining, even.

You stand there, looking at this house that once felt so expansive, and you realize: something needs to change.

That's when you call me in. You ask me to help you make something beautiful out of this place.

THE CRITICAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DESIGNER AND ARCHITECT

A designer focuses on what's visible: the decoration, the aesthetics, the surface. Think of it like the tip of an iceberg.

An architect looks at structure. Not just decoration, but foundation. An architect examines the two-thirds of the iceberg that sits beneath the water.

CLARIFY: ASSESSING THE FOUNDATION

Audit

In Architecture

We start by conducting a thorough audit of the house. We walk through every room, assess every space. What's working? What isn't working? What's missing?

The Parallel to Your Life

You're feeling constrained in your current life. It feels too small. You know something needs to shift, but you're not sure what or how.

As your lifestyle architect, I help you take stock:

  • What's working in your life?

  • What isn't working?

  • What's missing?

Identity

In Architecture

Are the foundations strong enough to support what you want to build? What is at the core of this structure?

The Parallel to Your Life

We check your foundations: your values, your why, your core beliefs. Who are you now, beyond the roles you've played? What matters most to you at this stage of your life?

Vision

In Architecture

We explore your vision for this house: what you want to create, what you want to experience within these walls. We design the blueprint together.

The Parallel to Your Life

We clarify your vision for the next season of your life. What does your ideal life look like? How do you want to feel? What legacy do you want to create? We design the blueprint for what comes next.

CLEAR: THE PREPARATION PHASE

Mindset: Preparing the Environment

In Architecture

Before we can build, we need to prepare the environment for construction. We assess what needs to happen before the first brick is laid.

The Parallel to Your Life

We prepare your mindset for transformation. What mental shifts need to happen? What new ways of thinking will support your vision?

Beliefs: Clearing the Rubble

In Architecture

We clear the rubble: debris, broken structures, anything that's in the way of the new construction.

The Parallel to Your Life

We clear old beliefs that no longer serve you. What stories have you been telling yourself that need to be released? What limiting beliefs are holding you back?

Money & Success: Emptying the Rooms

In Architecture

We empty rooms of what no longer belongs: outdated furniture, old belongings that don't fit the new vision.

The Parallel to Your Life

We examine your relationship with money and success. What outdated definitions are you carrying? What money stories keep you small? What expectations aren't even yours?

This is the essential work that makes transformation possible.

CREATE: THE CONSTRUCTION PHASE

Life & Business: Active Construction

In Architecture

The active construction begins. We follow the blueprint, but as with any building project, we fine-tune and adapt as we go. The wall comes down. The extension takes shape. We redistribute the floor plan according to the design.

The Parallel to Your Life

We create the beautiful space you want to live in: not just decorating the surface, but transforming the structure itself.

You start building your new life and business according to your blueprint. As you build, we fine-tune and adapt, making adjustments that honor both your vision and what emerges in the process.

Physical Environment: Building the Extension

In Architecture

We build the extension and decorate it. The new spaces come to life, reflecting the vision we designed together.

The Parallel to Your Life

We look at your physical environment. Where do you want to live? How do you want your space to feel? What surroundings will support your new vision? You create the environment that reflects who you're becoming.

People & Relationships: The Garden & Invitations

In Architecture

We landscape the garden, create the surroundings. Now it's time to invite people into this beautiful new space.

The Parallel to Your Life

We examine your relationships. Who energizes you? Who drains you? Who do you want to invite into this new chapter you're creating?

We address what's been holding you back at the deepest level, so the life you build is truly yours.

CONSOLIDATE: LIVING & MAINTENANCE

Health & Wellbeing: Living in the House

In Architecture

Once the construction is complete, you move into the house. How do you want to live in this space? How do you care for yourself here?

The Parallel to Your Life

You move into this beautiful life you've created. How will you care for yourself in this new chapter? What does wellbeing look like for you now? What daily routines and rituals will support your health and vitality?

Time Management: Making the Best of Your Time

In Architecture

How do you spend your time in this house? Which rooms do you use most? What gets your attention and energy?

The Parallel to Your Life

How can you make the best of your time? What are your true priorities? What boundaries do you need to set to protect your time and energy?

Systems & Tools: Maintaining It All

In Architecture

How do you maintain everything in good condition? What systems do you need to keep the house running smoothly?

The Parallel to Your Life

We put systems and tools in place that allow you to automate and delegate. What gets your focus, and what needs to be delegated and eliminated so that you can focus on what truly matters to you.

This is how we make sure everything is solid, perennial, built to last.

BEYOND THE RULES

This is how I help you create a next chapter that goes far beyond the conditioned rules of what success "should" look like.

This is how we challenge societal expectations of what life for a woman 50+ "should" be.

Because you didn't inherit this house just to leave it exactly as it was.

You inherited it to transform it, extend it, and make it truly yours.


Ready to reimagine the house you've inherited (aka your life) and transform it into something extraordinary?

Book your complimentary Chemistry Call - this is a 30-minute conversation where we'll explore your reinvention vision and determine if we're the right fit to work together. This call is for women who are serious about transformation and want to understand how my approach aligns with their goals.Because at 50+, you're not decorating. You're rebuilding for your most powerful chapter yet.

AnYes van Rhijn (with a capital Y, because she says YES to life!), a.k.a. The Reinvention Mentor®, believes in a New Paradigm Woman® - a vibrant woman 50+ who refuses to be defined by patriarchal limitations and knows she's destined for more. As someone who has boldly reinvented herself multiple times since her mid-forties, AnYes embodies the truth that your next chapter can be your most extraordinary yet. Now living her own reinvented life in Croatia, she empowers heart-centered professional women globally to create next chapters that overflow with purpose, freedom, and meaningful impact.

AnYes van Rhijn

AnYes van Rhijn (with a capital Y, because she says YES to life!), a.k.a. The Reinvention Mentor®, believes in a New Paradigm Woman® - a vibrant woman 50+ who refuses to be defined by patriarchal limitations and knows she's destined for more. As someone who has boldly reinvented herself multiple times since her mid-forties, AnYes embodies the truth that your next chapter can be your most extraordinary yet. Now living her own reinvented life in Croatia, she empowers heart-centered professional women globally to create next chapters that overflow with purpose, freedom, and meaningful impact.

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